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Guys would become hostile when I told them I wasn’t interested in NSA sex, or guys that had started normal and nice quickly turned the conversation into something explicitly sexual in nature.
Seemingly nice dudes in quite esteemed careers asking to hook up in 24 hours and sending them naked pics of myself despite multiple times telling them that I didn’t want to.” As a male coach for smart, strong, successful women, I apologize on behalf of all men. But they really don’t get what it’s like to walk a mile in your shoes.
For weeks, even months, you may chat back and forth with one another, forming a connection. But ultimately, it’s going to happen—your new-found “friend” is going to ask you for money.
So you send money..rest assured the requests won’t stop there.
Others, though, might actually result in dates if the dude's not careful.
Man poses as woman on dating site to prove his point.
“At first I thought it was fun, I thought it was weird but maybe I would mess with them or something and freak them out and tell them I was a guy or something, but as more and more messages came (either replies or new ones I had about 10 different guys message me within 2 hours) the nature of them continued to get more and more irritating.
The trick, then, is to keep it short, keep it simple, and make it funny.
"Please do not feed the trolls" does not apply here.
The world of online dating is extensive and exhausting for those in search of a potential mate, but the hook-up app Tinder brings the confusion to another level. Whether people just being a jerk for the pure enjoyment of getting a rise out of someone or detering from the general conversation and productivity at hand, Tinder and the rest of the online dating world is crawling with trolls.
You swipe/click/poke/prod – they reciprocate, and then when it comes time to meet up, (s)he drops the bomb that they had no intention of actually meeting up – that “online dating is for losers and my BFF [presumably Jill] made me this profile for me as a joke.” Ways to avoid: Look out for too-much focus on “online” – if they keep harping on it, then it’s likely they have some self-security issues.
The irony of this type of flake is that they often claim that online dating is only for losers/weirdos – but then what does that make them – who claim to not be looking for something, but instead troll online dating sites for someone to talk to.When asked why I still believe in it by friends, I have a wide selection of examples to draw from – and I’ve shared them with you all too.